Do you spank with a belt

I agree with you Joy. Thank you so much for the advice I now spank my daughter of 12 years old thoroughly with the belt on her bare bottom again thank you all. Wallin also helps clients with family law matters such as divorce and child custody. I too was spanked frequently and strictly growing up. Belting is the use of belts made of strong materials usually leather as a whip -like instrument for corporal punishment see that article for generalities. Welfare and Institutions Code Section c 1 limits the ability of a juvenile court to remove a child from the physical custody of the parents.

Let him know that he is free to return to the other activities as soon as he stops crying or whatever behavior he is engaging in. Not Helpful 5 Helpful Depending on the severity the sentence length and punishments differ, however, it is common for the child to be removed from their parent. I've never had a set amount of time or swats for a spanking. Jan 23, 1.

You should be understanding of these reactions, but you also need to stand your ground. That was worse than being spanked. Objects should never be used to spank your child and you should limit spankings to approximately three to four pats on the backside. Interestingly, adults who were not spanked as children don't spank their kids. He kicked me, slapped me and keeps calling me names.

Reisser's book takes you from birth through the tween years. You want to be calm, in control, and focused as you firmly spank your child, being very careful to respect his body. Is full of some really foolish people. Discipline with Dignity, Richard L. Like mentioned, some of those lighter punishments were simple, tedious and surprisingly hard work which often made me brother and I learn that in life in general, no bad action goes without some sort of consequence. If their bad attitude continues and becomes disrespectful, we will spank for that, for as long as it was made clear to them that behavior like that is not allowed. When does discipline become child abuse?